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Sometime all of this is too much. Life in general. Everyone is in search of something while they are here on earth. But things get in the way of you finding it sometimes…..who am I? who are u?
Last night i posted on my status “all men cheat” i was listening to Drita from mob wives on a radio show and she said that. Because she was married and NEVER seen it coming because Lee her husband was “always with her”. But she said in the daytime i guess he was cheating. Well i am married now and i love my husband dearly. But im sorry if he were to be cheating on me now or in the future it wouldnt surprise me.
Know why? Because ALL MEN DO IT!! Whether it was before you, after you, during you. They do it. Cheating is IN ALL FORMS. Internet cheating, flirting, looking, texting, anything they know they shouldnt be doing with another woman while they are with you. Women are very quick to defend their men “oh i know 100% my man wouldnt do that do me. Well sweets im here to tell you. When ur head over heels in love that means your blind to the fact dear.
If u go into ur relationship not being a dumb ass meaning trust ur man 99.9% and leave that 1% open for bullshit. You will get cheated on baby. Because ur man basically knows he got ur nose wide open. Either with his sex or with his game. I was taught at a young age not to fall for the bullshit. But im human and i have. My husband openly tells me he isnt that type. I believe him. To a certain extent.
And thats how ALL WOMEN SHOULD approach a relationship. You give urself to a man 100% yes u will get played. Due to the fact that ur nose is wide the hell open. Oh my God he gives me flowers and gifts and is there for me and blah blah blah stfu. Goody gum drops for you hes “supposed to do those things” right? But he always can stray at one little inkling of a mistake u make.
So yes my statement stands “all men cheat” either before you, after you, during you. Its up to you to be a smart woman and not give all urself to a man u will end up loosing not only who you are but ur dignity. Yeah i said it. Feel free to comment as you wish. This is America so ur opinion is highly welcomed. Have a great day ladies and gents!
Whats going on!! This is my first official blog. Alot of people have asked why dont i blog since im always ranting on about things on twitter and facebook. Since im like an insomniac i decided this would be a great time to do this!! Well here is some background on me before i began….
I was born and raised in Los Angeles, Ca (south central) to be exact. I love Cali and represent where im from everyday! Its a beautiful state. But way expensive!! If your planning on moving there i suggest you have a really good job lol. I am 35 yrs old. Im a scorpio!! I have two great kids Khristopher who is 12, and Khendal who is 2. I am a newlywed i was married November 3, 2011 and im married to the greatest guy ever!
I went to Crenshaw High School but was expelled for fighting lol (ikr) but yes im a little firecracker. I always have been its not anything to brag about but hey its the truth. Im the one that am always down for a stompdown. But i have been working on that being that im a mom now and my anger management issues have to be worked on. But dont get me wrong im a sweetheart. Ill give my last off my back, and im never selfish. Just dont cross me. So after Crenshaw i went to Fremont High where i graduated from c/o 94!
After that i didnt want to go to college because back in my day the schools had no real programs that encouraged that sort of thing. My mother told me getting a high school diploma was good enough. So i figured well okay. So i ended up going to San Diego Job Corps and graduated from there in 96. Long story short i had my son at 23 and became a mom.
I was a single mom for some time and after seeing my lil brother graduate from Baylor in 2004 i decided to go back to school to pursue my degree in marketing. From a young girl ive always enjoyed the marketing aspect of things. I recieved my BA in marketing in 2007 which was a proud moment for me. I interned at aftermath records. Which was soooo much fun and a great learning experience for me.
After which i moved to Houston, Texas at the advice of my brother. I met my future husband 2 months after i arrived here in 2008. And the rest is pretty much history. Well there is a little background on me for now. Trust there are alot of holes in this story lol. But at least you know a little bit. Until next time…..im out!!